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Aint No Mountain High Enough, Word Up, Hypnotize, Only You, Waterfalls, Creep, Aiesha, Hey Mr. DJ, Killing Me Softly, Baby Got Back, All About The Benjamins, One More Chance, mixed in with other tunes from the 90's describe my weekend clowning at Martha's Vineyard. I got back to Boston early this morning and I'm overtaken by the feeling you get when everything is going your way.  I'm reminded of a song by Musiq Soulchild off his third album "When you never want that moment to end." Right now I feel that way. So about my the trip, I traveled with the same group that I went with to Montreal last year. I guess you can say it was our one year anniversary of our original summer vacation, so I knew it was going to be a fun trip.  I flew into Boston  last Wednesday and woke up at the crack of dawn Saturday morning to catch the ferry to Martha's Vineyard.  MV was only a place that I heard of and never a place where I thought I'd visit. I was cool to travel t

Today in class we played a game called "Hot Spot." I made it up on the fly after watching a clip from The Great Debators. The premise of the game was that each person in class had to stand in the hot spot for 30 seconds and answer a question. The idea was to spend 30 seconds speaking and of course that did not happen but it was still funny. I volunteered to step into the hot spot and have the students ask me a question and one student asked what is the greatest moment that helped define who you are today. I chose to talk about me being unemployed after graduate school and the journey I took to find a place that really fit who I am. After grad school I had so much ambition and drive, I just knew I was going to be an ad exec on Madison Ave. Unfortunately things did not happen that way. I found myself back home living in my parent's basement feeling so unsure of myself. Job application after job application and no response. My money got so low, I'm not even sure how I

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While grading some assignments here is what I found. I'm not including the full message but here's a bit: "... I think I could have done a better job with organizing my main points. I failed to explain why I sang the National Anthem. I used too many "ums" and had a total brain freeze at one point. I really enjoyed the class and I think you're a great instructor. I hope to see you around campus soon. Thank you,"

This is all I can say. It's getting better. I have 8 days until grades are due and I've got an early start. I think I'll have to schedule a happy hour to celebrate me finishing another successful year! I can't wait to tell you all exactly why things are getting better. Quote from a friend: "son, with the favor you have on your life, the moment you decide that you do want a house, I wouldn't be surprised that someone ups and gives you one-- prime real estate, fully renovated, and mortgage free. Just my experience with your life, it seems like the Lord waits for you to decide what you want or what direction, and then He opens doors or shows you what doors are already open." "look over your resume with God and you should see what I see McNair, internships, networking, Bahamas, grad school, Roanoke job, NYC, NOVA, DC, old car/new car, etc... not to mention just little stuff, and interpersonal relationships a year being unemployed and still every need